Bad Friends

Bad friends have to be identified correctly in the right time and should be avoided. If they are bad they can never be termed as friends but are just acquaintances. Bad friends will only drag you into bad habits. Companions who were once friends, when they turn out to be bad are worse because they know your entire secret and may drag you down anytime. So, it is crucial to identify true friendship and confide only in them. Bad friends are always a trouble. Stephen king said, “no good friends no bad friends only people you want, need to be with .People who build their houses in your heart”. Bad friends are worse than our enemies. So they should always be kept at a distance. Enemies will stab you in your friend and we will be aware of their moves. But bad friends will stab at the back without us knowing what their moves will be. This kind of betrayal is very hard to undergo. So, get rid of bad friends.

YOU HURT MY FEELINGS- THEREFORE YOU SHOULD CHANGE

Such is the trap into which millions of us fall, blaming others for our hurt feelings and making demands upon them for change. This is very similar to the preceding "You make me unhappy" trap which only leads to giving away of personal power, a continued lack of self-esteem and more power in the hands of those who so "hurt your feelings". To choose not to make one's happiness dependent upon others leads to real empowerment. And it is possible!But the possibility must first be recognized, secondly accepted as something desirable and thirdly actively pursued. The goal is to change from being hurt to being OK with whatever situation causes my hurts so that I am not hurt the next time that situation occurs. Do you want to be so empowered? Examination of similar childhood hurts will probably be the key to not being hurt next time. 

    

Most people these days think that nasty names "naturally" hurt folks. Such erroneous thinking is causing huge amounts of societal unhappiness.

Is all about Me

I ♥ me

This is a story of a girl..... (Part 1)

I'm by no means shy or quite. I'm outgoing, in your face, and loud. But I like it that way. And the few people good enough to call friends dont seem to mind either. I'm girly girl but can be one of the guys too. I'm all about having a good time. I can make pretty much any situation. I'm put into fun. I love to sing (sometimes its off key) and dance (like no one is watching) I cry when i watch sad movies. I'm a sucker for chick flicks. I'm the biggest scaredy dog in the world. My family is my world. I am nothing without them. My friends save my life. Music makes my world go round [ALL MUSIC] I tend to over think to much on things that dont matter. I'm a blonde and blonde moments come along with that. I'm the girl that will laugh at a joke i heard yesterday. Making someone else smile, makes my day. I smile alot and laugh even more (the best laughs are the ones that make your cheeks hurt and your eyes water)

I've made mistakes in my life. I've let people take advantage of me, and I have accepted way less than I deserve. But, I've learned from my bad choices and even though there are some things I can never get back and people who will never be sorry, I'll know better next time and I won't settle for anything less than I deserve...

(to be continue) 

I ♥ My ♥ Me ♥ Mine 

This is a story of a girl..... (Part 2)

♥ I’m the type of girl who is easy going.. If your being rude, i WILL IGNORE YOU.. When you decide to be polite, I’ll talk to you.. I’m a girl with feelings.. sometimes i have mixed emotions.. There are people in my life right now that i hope to NEVER lose.. I’m a girl who loves to laugh and loves people who can make me laugh.. I laugh at the most stupidest things.. I’m the type of girl who doesnt want to deal with drama but somehow gets sucked into it.. I just want to live my life.. And I’m NOT going to let one little thing get me down!.. ♥

♥ I'm the type of girl that needs a guy that will PROTECT me from the nasty things and people in this small world ♥ A guy that will SAVE me when I’m in trouble ♥ A guy who will TEXT me when I need to be texted ♥ A guy that will HOLD me when I need to be held ♥ A guy that will LOVE me 20/12 ♥ A guy that’s not going to make me the other girl, a guy that’s going to make me THE GIRL, the only one! ♪ Also a guy that brings music into my life ♫

♥ I'm the type of girl who will burst out laughing in dead silence because of something that happened yesterday. I’m already to be that girl again. The one who wasn’t afraid to fly, to fall, that never cried over dumb boy, who would never worry about being in love. I am nowhere near perfect. I eat when I'm bored. I fall for boys easily. I’m vunerable to believing lies. I’m hoping that one day I won't need a fake smile. I live by quotes that explain exactly what I am going through. I make up excuses for everthing. I have best friends and enemies. I have drama and memories [and that's life] Live it, Love it... Learn from it ♥

You can say anything about me please… But I Am What I Am. And that’s something that You Can Never Be. Accept me, reject me, but I'm still me. No one can change me, except me ♥

(The End)

I'm not a perfect girl

I know I'm not a perfect girl, and I cant pretend to be.

hmm... Actually I'm a crazy girl. LOL~

I used to be a bad girl. I made friend with bad guys. Loving without thinking. I had grown up with cuss time. Now I'm trying to mature, to become a good girl, but it seem to be hard for me.

My hair is always untidy, and I ruin everything. 

My room is messy with many useless stuffs.

My parents always yell at me, and at that times I made them even crazier than me :))

I cant take care of myself, and I always relying on the others.

Sometime I'd get a breakdown, like doing stupid things, fighting with my friends, yelling at everyone, going mad with everything, and saying bad words... I know I'm damn mad as hell :(

Sometimes I’d get troubled and I’d fail to put into words what the hell it is that troubles me.

Sometimes I’d lose my temper and I’d no longer act like the fine person who stands before you today. Sometimes I’d get jealous and I might say things I don’t really mean. Sometimes I’d talk too much that I might drive my friends crazy.

Sometimes I’d get touchy and I’d get easily hurt. And no matter how mature I try to be, at times I’d act in childish ways. I’d demand things I shouldn’t, I’d say things I shouldn’t say.

I'm heart sick, but I always hide my feeling. I can't share what I'm feeling. Yup, you can consider me as a faker, a liar or whatever. That's why my best friend worry abt me. She can't reach to me. I'm feeling like our friendship was not the same. My bad T__T

I’m sick of crying all the time. But I just cry in silence because I hate people seeing tears rolling in my face.

I'm a daydreamer. I always dream about strange things that never come true. Poor me. lol.

Yeap . . I'm not perfect but I'm unique. I'm not strange but I'm different. That's why I love being imperfect :)

Don’t you hate it when people make a joke about you, about something that you are actually incredibly insecure about. And they don’t realize it, but every laugh feels like a stab in your chest, because it hurts so much and brings up memories you’d rather forget. But you can’t say anything, because then people would know your weaknesses. They’d know how insecure you really are. So instead you just laugh it off, and hide the pain you feel inside. . . fuck !

A broken heart is the worst. It’s like having broken ribs. Nobody can see it, but it hurts every time you breathe. . . ~

Have you ever been so upset you just completely broke down alone by yourself. Your parents can’t tell and nor can your friends because you hide it behind a smile. You know you’re not okay. Yet again, no one knows how you feel and you don’t bother telling them because they have their own lives to deal with. So you store all your problems, all your sorrow, all your tears, all your hurt and all your pain. You’ll take it out some other day, but not today.. Today’s not the day. Because here’s to the nights you delt with more than you bargained for. All those sleepless nights crying so hard you couldn’t breathe. To the nights you couldn’t wait till everybody grew up because you were sick of them judging you. To all those nights you things would just get bettter. To all those good nights that turned to bad. To all those nights you wish you were older. To those nights that unfortunately came too soon. . . ~

You know what? Yes I have changed. I’m not as nice as I used to be, because I don’t want to get used or walked over, I don’t trust everyone and tell them my secrets, because behind every fake smile is a backstabbing bitch. I distance myself from people because in the end, they’re only going to leave. I have changed because I have realized that im the only person I can depend on.

Love is like a magic . . ~

One of the best feelings in the world is when you’re hugging tight a person who you love with absolutely everything you have, and they hug you back even tighter . ..If I die young, bury me in satin, lay me down on a bed of roses. sink me in the river, at dawn. send me away with the words of a love song♡ . .

I push people away. That’s what I do. It’s because I hate getting too close to anyone because I know that they are going to leave me, or hurt me anyway. That’s why I don’t like being around people, or getting to know guys. The problem is, I’ll never get to know anyone because I’m too scared. . .